So you just found out you're moving. The first thing to remember is that everything is going to be fine. I know this seems like a slap in the face in this moment, and it's normal... you have the right to feel sad or angry about the situation. But you have to remember that moving is not going to be the end of the world. It might mean the end of a chapter in your life, but if you just take a deep breath and allow yourself to open up, you are going to be amazed.
Whether you've lived in one place your whole life, or just for a year or two- this is going to be a difficult process. It's not suppose to be easy. You are human. You thrive when you are close to the ones you love and it's hard to imagine spending life without them right next to you. But you can make it easier on yourself by making the conscious choice to believe that you can do this. Make the decision to make the most out of every second you have. Choose to wake up every morning and smile rather than to let your situation weigh you down all day.
If you feel like no one understands what you are going through, if you feel like you're alone in this... you're not. I'm here to make this process easier for you.
One point in all of this I strive to make very clear is that you need to take some time to grieve- and that that time is necessary. You have a right to feel and you should not let anyone tell you differently. Take time to grieve but don't let that define you, please don't let it take you over. There comes a point where you have to snap out of it. You can still feel sad but coming home everyday to lie on your bed and do nothing because you're sad is not going to help you at all. I've fallen into that trap and it was dangerous. It takes you somewhere you don't want to be.
So take a deep breath. Smile. And take the time back. Use all the time you've got to make this place, this time, this moment special. You can do this!
<3 Stay Fabulous <3
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Are you in the process of moving? Have you ever moved before? Have any helpful tips to share? Leave it in the comments!
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capuchino by Nguyen Huu Quan is licensed by CC by 4.0 and modified by Paige Terch
Whether you've lived in one place your whole life, or just for a year or two- this is going to be a difficult process. It's not suppose to be easy. You are human. You thrive when you are close to the ones you love and it's hard to imagine spending life without them right next to you. But you can make it easier on yourself by making the conscious choice to believe that you can do this. Make the decision to make the most out of every second you have. Choose to wake up every morning and smile rather than to let your situation weigh you down all day.If you feel like no one understands what you are going through, if you feel like you're alone in this... you're not. I'm here to make this process easier for you.
One point in all of this I strive to make very clear is that you need to take some time to grieve- and that that time is necessary. You have a right to feel and you should not let anyone tell you differently. Take time to grieve but don't let that define you, please don't let it take you over. There comes a point where you have to snap out of it. You can still feel sad but coming home everyday to lie on your bed and do nothing because you're sad is not going to help you at all. I've fallen into that trap and it was dangerous. It takes you somewhere you don't want to be.
So take a deep breath. Smile. And take the time back. Use all the time you've got to make this place, this time, this moment special. You can do this!
<3 Stay Fabulous <3
____________________________________________________________________
Are you in the process of moving? Have you ever moved before? Have any helpful tips to share? Leave it in the comments!
__________________________________
capuchino by Nguyen Huu Quan is licensed by CC by 4.0 and modified by Paige Terch
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